Opinion By Mike Cusanelli @MCusanelliSB Stan Lee taught me to dream the impossible Along with the fantastic powers exhibited by his heroes, the deeper lesson from his many works is that no matter who we are or what we do, we are all capable of being extraordinary. Stan Lee in Los Angeles on April 12, 2016. Photo Credit: Getty Images / Frazer Harrison Updated November 12, 2018 7:48 PM Print Share fbShare Tweet Email Even for many people who have never picked up a comic book, the name Stan Lee is synonymous with costumed superheroes such as Spider-Man, the X-Men and many other warriors who are such a huge part of popular culture. Lee, commonly referred to as the father of Marvel Comics and a legend in the comic book world, died Monday at 95. He was respected not only among his peers, but also among fans worldwide who flocked to see him at conventions or who looked for his famous cameos over the years in Marvel movies. So it is an understatement to say comic book fans were mourning Monday. As a lifelong fan of his work and the universe of characters he helped bring to life, I felt the terrible loss. Although much has been written about Lee’s impact on the genre of comics he created or helped create — Black Panther, Mighty Thor and The Incredible Hulk, among others — and that he was instrumental in introducing audiences to some of the first African-American and female superheroes, his impact on individual fans will be his greatest legacy. In a world of so much darkness and cruelty, Lee’s brightly costumed creations and themes of idealism, selflessness and heroism in the face of overwhelming odds will be what I cherish most from his work. I learned of Lee’s characters at a young age, starting with the X-Men animated series in the 1990s. Later, I learned of his other heroes through television, movies and video games, and developed a lifelong love of comic books. That fandom led to lasting friendships and a deep sense of belonging among the millions who also dream of being extraordinary. Aside from their entertainment value, these characters allowed comic book aficionados to believe there is good in each of us, and that even the most ordinary among us is capable of extraordinary things. Along with the fantastic powers exhibited by Lee’s heroes, the deeper lesson from his work is that no matter who we are or what we do, we are all capable of being heroes. After all, Spider-Man would be nothing without his innate sense of responsibility and dedication to doing right by his fellow humans. The X-Men would not exist were it not for Professor Charles Xavier’s pledge to protect the people of Earth. There’s much we can learn from Lee. Mike Cusanelli is manager of research and digital production for Newsday Opinion. Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Comments We're revamping our Comments section. Learn more and share your input.